WHY DID WE STICK IN EXCUSES?

Jshnpreet
2 min readNov 16, 2020

I’ve tried not to bog you down with too much detail and information because it tends to keep us overthinking. So, In Simple Words EXCUSE is the Justification we give to defend ourselves. Excuses trigger when we don’t have realistic goals. When we don’t have any ambition or special purpose in life, it is the fundamental nature of humans that he starts giving excuses namely: Responsibilities, Family pressure, Family emergencies, and so forth. In accordance with the Article by University of Manitoba Psychologists Tara Thatches and Donald Bailis, Fear of Failure is one of the most common reasons for excuses. Whatever reasons you have for not wanting to work -that is the mechanism that has you making excuses for everything else in your life holding you back.

Your mind’s top priority is to keep you out of harm and within the safe bubble that you currently reside in. There is an impressive record of both creating and implementing excuses in our mind. The single solution to stop giving excuses is that daily say to your inmost soul that I had to do it whatever the distractions and problems take place. When you are absolutely clear that this time is the golden period of your life and the coming years of your life totally dependent upon your current efforts then the possibility for distractions and excuses becomes minor. The birth of every achievement takes place from the dissatisfaction from the current living state. Every success story whether invention, discovery, or business begins from dissatisfaction with existing conditions. More than 90%of people don’t achieve their goals because they are not being specific enough. They have a general wish that they never become ready to come out of their comfort zone because it's just the wish they don’t have the realistic ambition hence, their lives stuck between excuses and diversions. You must have a purpose instead of desire. If we begin to work for a purpose then effortlessly we can attain our goals because the real struggle is to figure out your purpose. When you get the actual purpose of your life then there be no place for excuses and you get many ways. Your paths can be different from other conquerors but the destination will be same.

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